Sext Messages offers busy couples a way to connect!

I heard the familiar sound of the beep emanating from my phone while tucked in my bed watching a movie late one evening. My husband often texts me before leaving from work to advise me that he is on his way home just so I do not worry.

Working evenings as a professional cleaner, he arrives home after I have fallen fast asleep and we don’t get to see one another much during a work week. There was something different this particular evening in the text message that he sent me. It had a sort of “sexy” tone to it and feeling a little frisky I wanted to see if he was opening the door for a similar response, on a whim I wrote,”I will be waiting for you in bed with my friend.” My friend, of course, being my trusty sex toy.

Reading that one sext message sent my husband into an hour long dirty sexting frenzy that I am pretty sure he won’t soon forget.

I am certain it made him have to pull over on the highway on several occasions to avoid crashing. Thus began our love affair with phone sex and sexting and created a much-needed sexual outlet for us. Two busy professionals working different hours, we don’t often get a chance to connect and sexting offers us a way to set the mood with a little foreplay so we can find the time to connect even if for a few moments late at night.

Needless to say, that evening when my husband arrived home we had some of the most passionate and intimate sex that we have had in years. It reignited our fire and created something within us that neither of us wants to let go of. Sexting has since become a vital part of our regular sexual routines. I use the word routine loosely as ours sex like if anything but routine. We like to mix it up quite a bit, sexting only seemed like a natural progression.

For those of you who have never tried using sext messages or sexting to liven up your relationship, you really should give it a shot. It just may enhance your sex life like it did ours. At the very least it will offer you an outlet for some of your own desires, fetishes or fantasies. Doing it with a professional chat host is the best way to start because they can show you the ropes and get you comfortable with the logistics of it, things like key terms and phrases.

Flirting with your partner ignites the passion in your relationship and can actually remind you of the reasons that you fell for the person in the first place. Not to mention texting with a stranger has a kind of voyeuristic appeal to it, if you are into that.

Didn’t you exchange dirty messages or talk on the phone during the time that you were dating? Sexting is another way to do just that, however, it is slightly more risque.  Who can resist that?