Many people feel awkward or anxious when sleeping with someone new for the first time. Having sex with someone should be new, exciting and hot; not an uncomfortable experience. Surprisingly, an adult online retailer found that new relationships start off with bad sex. One would think that the start of a new relationship would have some of the best sex; usually the sex dies off over time in a relationship. 50 percent of people said the sex was absolutely terrible. But that’s why sexting is fun!
Your go to move that got your previous partner off might not do anything for a new partner. You might think your hitting like a porn star but your new partner might be having the worse time of their life. Bad sexual experiences can be very damaging to one’s self-confidence in and out of bed. So you don’t have a bad sex experience, because who wants that? Here are some ways to never feel anxious in bed so bad sex is out of your vocabulary.
Be on the same page: Before you get to banging, make sure you and your new partner are on the same page. It can be anything from details, protection and getting consent for certain acts. Positive sexual tension means a stress free sack.
Speak up: No one is a mind reader, no one is going to know what you want if you don’t speak up and say what you want. It may be an awkward moment talking about what you like sexually but it’s going to be a hell of a lot more awkward during the act.
Don’t go in with certain expectations: You don’t know your new partner’s sexual experiences; so don’t go in setting the bar too high. You’re likely not going to have an out of body orgasm so try shifting the focus on having pleasurable fun.
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